6 Little Ways To Succeed In Your Long Distance Relationship

By Abdelkabir Bens

Anyone who has eVer been in a long-distance relationship knows the crazy look people give you when you tell them. Long-distance relationships aren’t ideal, but in 2017 when most families have two-income households, jobs can make remaining in the same city difficult.

  

1. It works for us. Long-distance relationships really aren’t for everyone. Love isn’t enough to keep two people together. You both have to want it, you both have to trust it will work, and you both have to stay positive and communicate. It really won’t work for every couple, but it does have the ability to work for some.

2. We plan time to talk and Facetime. We keep each other in the loops about we’re doing each day. Not to be controlling and overbearing, but so we know when will be a good time to call or text and when we KNOW they’re not answering because they’re busy. We keep each other in the loop and included in each other’s lives.

3. We remain positive. Whenever we talk about being together again, we always say “when you move down.” Not “if.” Doing this helps us both stay positive and envision the future we’re working towards.
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4. We surprise each other. Small care packages, postcards, and the one-time surprise visit. We send each other little things to remind each other we’re thinking of them.

5. We plan visits. Probably the most important piece of our relationship is knowing when we will see each other again. It gives us something to look forward to and it helps to know the time apart is only temporary.

6. We have every intention of being together again ASAP. We went into this knowing we wanted to be together again. There was no “maybe someday I’ll consider moving” or fights about who will move to who. We knew where we wanted to be and one of us just happened to make it there first.

Love isn’t always enough. It takes a lot of time, trust, and patience to make a long-distance relationship work.